In this episode of I Do, We Do, we discuss how competition negatively impacts relationships. Billy is very competitive, Ashley is not. That has led to conflict in the past when playing games against each other. We have come to realize that competition and scorekeeping really kill relationships because instead of I Do, We Do it […]
We are busy bodies. We are always going somewhere or doing something. We have different jobs usually in different locations. How do we manage to share one car? In this episode of I Do, We Do, we discuss why we decided to share one car as a busy couple that likes to move and transport from […]
Episode 2: We Do Our DISC Assessments In this episode of I Do, We Do, we discuss our different styles using the DISC Assessment. We discuss how our differences make us stronger as a couple and make it easier to work together and be successful when we work together. The DISC Assessment measures an individual’s […]
Welcome to the I Do, We Do podcast. I am excited to launch this podcast with my wife, Ashley Alaniz-Moyer. In this podcast, we chat about our relationship, careers, challenges, and how our many differences complement each other and make us better together. We believe that together, we can always achieve more. When we each […]
One of my favorite quotes is: “We don’t see things as they are. We see things as WE are.” I often use this quote in my presentations on leadership and purpose. I think it is one of those quotes we should always remember because things are not always as they seem to us. Have you ever gotten […]
Earlier this week I ran out to get food for a meeting at my office. I needed four drinks and of course they were out of the drink holders so they tried to pack them tight in the bag. As I drove away I held on to the bag with one arm and drove with the other […]
Have you ever had an off day? You know, one of those days that you just could not get going? You were not productive. You questioned your purpose in life. Have you ever just felt like a total disgrace? I have felt that way before. A few months ago, I spoke to a group and […]
One of the greatest tragedies in our society is the fear of making mistakes. Nothing is wrong or bad in making them whether it be for lack of knowledge, lack of experience or even at times lack of judgment. They are simply steps in our normal learning process. If we condemn error, we must also […]
A positive attitude is one of the most important characteristics a leader can have because of how contagious it can be. The late Paul J. Meyer, the founder of the personal development industry used to say that “Attitude is Everything.” It really is everything when looking at an organization’s culture. Attitude is one thing we can choose […]
I read a lot of new books every year. There is one book though, that I have read every single year for as long as I can remember. That Book is: As a Man Thinketh, by James Allen This book was published in 1903 and to me it is still one of the greatest self-help […]
